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Hello. I'm 14 year old female and I have some delicate questions.
You see, just recently I felt strong desire for sexual pleasure and tried to masturbate but –to be honest with you I didn’t know how to. I know that I should stimulate my clitoris but it didn’t lead to anything but clitoral irritation.
I haven’t talked about this with anyone because I'm too embarrassed to mention this to my parents or to my parents.
Please help me because I don’t know what to do. I was hopping that someone could explain me or describe me some techniques of clitoris stimulation.
Answer:
Hello. I have just read your post and decided to help you. First I must help you understand some psychological aspects of female masturbation. For always it was some stigma surrounding masturbation, especially female, but not so long time ago, women have decided to speak freely about it. Masturbation has many good effects such as knowing your own body and learning some aspects of sexual pleasure and orgasms.
Listen one good advice- masturbation is best when you have plenty of time and when you won't be interrupted. To avoid clitoral irritation- try using some lubricants. I would suggest you to place your thumb and forefinger around the clitoris and gently roll it in between your fingers or you can go circularly around it with your fingers. Many women find the clitoris too sensitive for direct stimulation so you could avoid this rubbing the whole vulva.
Another answer to this question:
It may take you a bit of a while to discover what you like the most in terms of sexual stimulation. Some women don't like or cannot handle clitoral stimulation because it's just too intense, and that's perfectly fine. Learning exactly how to bring yourself to orgasm is practically an art, and it won't happen overnight. As others have said, lack of lubrication can cause irritation; that area of your body is extremely sensitive and if it's bone-dry, it's going to get irritated very quickly if you try to stimulate yourself. Non-scented lotion or massage oil would work fine as a lubricant.
It's fine if you don't want to discuss this matter with your parents - I wouldn't want to do that either. I would suggest searching the internet for female masturbation techniques and just giving them a try. You will eventually find something that is to your liking. Might want to clear your computer's history if you share the computer with your parents if you do this search.
I'll share this one with you...it's something I discovered by accident when I was about your age. When you go to take a shower, slide your behind up against the wall of the bathtub directly under the faucet. Set the water to the desired temperature and let it run over your genitals - it may help to expose your clitoris by pulling back the outer skin. I know it sounds bizarre, but you may be pleasantly surprised.
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